Friday, January 28, 2011

The Great Anticipation, Meeting Sister

Oprah did it again!

She cannot be touched. Her unquantifiable contribution to the world is unmatched. Her energetic drive to unselfishly give of herself is phenomenal. The unconditional love she shares and produces will never be reduced or eliminated.

Oprah Winfrey is a Legend.

She is doing what each of us can do:
We don't need her money to do it! All we have to do is keenly focus on how we want to be remembered, and live accordingly.

With great anticipation, the world waited for Monday's show. Then as the world watched the heroine did something that has made so many of us pause, reflect, and become village investigators. We began to investigate our family trees, or should I say we began to dissect our webbed families. We became intrigued with family. And, we became passionately tangled up with thoughts of what we will find in the near future or tangled up with what we have found in the past four days.
An atmosphere has been framed for people to compassionately think about family and what family really means despite the dynamic complexities: infidelity, molestation, incest, skin complexion division, choice of religion, substance abuse, money, and various other developments that may cause familial breakdown.

Surprisingly, many of my confidants have pledged not to use "half sister and half brother" any longer. That in itself is a rejuvenated beginning. The necessary beginning of mending hearts and removing pain. Oprah Winfrey has us rolling with a purpose, and with an expectation of irreplaceable:
We are familiar with this song. It is an unfortunate – but - accurate indictment on men from all walks of life that decided to lay up any and everywhere. Leaving his seed pleasingly planted in the wombs of God's Greatest Creation:

The Female
Therefore, resulting in Papa becoming daddy to girls and boys all over the world. Also, resulting in brothers and sisters never meeting. While I do not condone this reality, I do support that element that has been missing for such a very long time:

The Search for Brother and Sister

Some will stay focused on the Papa was a Rolling Stone paragraph with negativity, and with undeniable pain. The pain is understandable. I acknowledge that!

What I recognize and accept too is the possibility of reconciliation and restoration. We have to restore what has been broken. Torn-up and destroyed. We have an opportunity to reconnect or connect with the seeds that have become Flower Children. We have to forge a bond with the sister and brother we never knew. We have to honor the legendary moms that endured, pressed on when Papa rolled out.

Ultimately, we have to learn from this week's Great Anticipation.

Wasn't it worth it? Don't you feel good? Aren't you ready to be ONE with your sibling(s)?

Seek out, find, and love what was lost - and remember that you are Half of NOTHING.

-Touched

2 comments:

  1. My thing regarding this wasn't even about Oprah-I'm happy she was able to find her sister. What irks me is the european way siblings are labeled. In this instance, it was constantly repeated that she'd found her "half" sister. In the Black/African culture, there's no such thing. She's her sister, plain and simple, because they share blood. Their whole pathology is one that seeks to demean and diminish humans and humanity.


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  2. I saw the show. I was impressed, as usual, with Oprah. I also was impressed with her sister and the two children for their obvious sense of integrity. They made the Oprah connection in 2007 and could easily have sold the story to the tabloids, but did not.

    I am the oldest of four. We have a great relationship with each other. We had wonderful working class parents who were very loving and supportive of all of us and each other. If we were to discover any siblings, I am confident we would be willing to meet with them, discover their story and, like Oprah. slowly get to know them.

    So far, this is not our story. But as always, Oprah presented herself as a wonderful role model for the many viewers who currently share similar stories and for those with similar stories yet to unfold.


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